Asexuality and Fandom
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In fanworks, an asexual or "ace" character or relationship usually does not display much or any interest in sexual sensations. Fanworks that include asexuality range from rare to more prevalent depending on the fandom.
Fandoms With Ace Characters (Fanon or Canon)
Dishonored: Head writer Harvey Smith confirmed on Twitter that the assassin Daud (antagonist of the first game and protagonist of the DLCs) is asexual. An in-game book says that "sex had never interested him".
Dreaming of Sunshine: The main character Nara Shikako is canonically aromantic and asexual, although the author, Silver Queen, has said she doesn't mind people shipping Shikako in their recursive fanfiction.
Mass Effect: The salarians in general are considered to be an asexual race, but the most prominent example of the salarians' asexuality within fandom is the character of Mordin Solus. While he eventually sees Commander Shepard as a good friend, he politely turns down any notion of a relationship with them -if they are not in a romance with another character at the time-, but adds that if he were to "try human", he would "try" Shepard (interestingly enough, he says this to both male and female Shepards).
Les Misérables: Enjolras is often interpreted as being asexual, due to Hugo's description of him in the Brick. However, Enjolras's sexuality is not clearly defined in any canon and is mainly understood through interpreting Classical allusions, and is accordingly one of the most commonly debated issues in the Les Mis fandom.
Some writers like exploring what this means for his possible romance with Watson. Holmes/Watson or Sherlock/John fic where Holmes and Watson first get together and Holmes is asexual and Watson is not often has some element of angst as they negotiate their romantic relationship. John is often portrayed as missing sex and many stories end in a compromise where their relationship has some consensual sexual element. One common plot in Sherlock BBC fanwork ends with Sherlock convincing a reluctant John that he is comfortable participating in some sexual activity with John.
Sherlock Holmes's brother, Mycroft, is also sometimes characterized as asexual and other characters rarely.
Communities & Resources
Meta & Discussion
- Ramp-Up Essay/Meta/Q&A Session/Rec-List on Asexuality (& Kink) for Kink Bingo.
- Ramp Up Essay: Being a Kinky Ace for Kink Bingo.
- Asexuality and Femslash
- any good cites for the frequency of fanon asexual characters being either alien or non-neurotypical? melannen made a post on that at one point?
Asexual Characters and Sex in Fanwork
Some fans have expressed concern over the prevalence of asexual characters, for whom sex is not a focus, being depicted having sex in fanwork. Dchan writes this is perhaps an effect of sexual people writing asexual characters as well as a problem with the constraints of the romance genre in general,
Well, seeing as how 99% of the population is sexual, that's their frame of reference and they may have a hard time breaking out of that. Sadly, gen fic is pretty rare, and I've noticed that there are certain tropes for fics that involve romantic relationships. Unfortunately all of these tropes assume that romance invariably leads to sex, even if said sex isn't shown in the fic. It becomes an expectation of the genre (if fanfic can be classified as a genre), and a lot of people can't figure out how to work around that expectation. It becomes easier to figure out a reason why the ace character has to have sex than to go against the archetype of how romantic relationships in fictions are Supposed to Be.
The pattern of asexual characters altruistically entering into sexual relationships in fanwork is also criticized by other fans. Calvinahobbes writes,
. . . the narrative of "I'm not sexual, I just like giving you handjobs" is one I can't relate to. It tires me to read stories about "ace" characters without seeing evidence that their relationship to sex actually differs from sexual people. It's not unthinkable for me that some aces would want to have sex, for a host of reasons, but I'm tired of the "magic, selfless ace, who just wants to please" trope. I'd love to read the "magic, selfless sexual, who just wants to please" trope, now; I think it's time to write some of that.
Hawkelf writes that depictions of asexuality can be idealistic when it comes to the willingness of all asexuals to engage in sexual activity,
Honestly, I think the balance of ase-in-porn!fic vs. ace-no-porn!fic should be considered on a character by character, fandom by fandom basis. In some, it will definitely be more probable than others due to canonical characterization…. At the same time, I also admit to concern that all of the sex fic and happy endings will create a misconception that all asexuals will always be able and willing to compromise and that doing so is no big deal.
Ysabetwordsmith writes that overall there is a lack of variety in relationship patterns in fanwork, especially involving asexuals,
[The "magic self-less ace" trope] can create unrealistic expectations of relationship dynamics that are difficult to pursue in real life. Doesn't mean it shouldn't be written, but too much would be troublesome. Eh, what we really need is a good bouquet of different fic types, so they can be compared and contrasted for possible usefulness as role models.
- The perks of Constancy by superpol, a James Bond/Q story about James Bond navigating his relationship with an asexual Q. Includes relationship negotiation.
- The Not Your Teaching Tool Job by BlackEyedGirl has Parker as a biromantic asexual in a relationship with Hardison and Eliot. The story revolves around her trying to explain to them her feelings on sex.
- Rogers & Barnes: Partners by triedunture Bucky Barnes/Steve Rogers, Steve and Bucky's friendship has been rocky ever since Bucky confessed his tender feelings and Steve left him out in the cold. Can asexual, completely-in-love-with-his-angry-best-friend Steve complete the mission and win Bucky's heart? (Yes)
- The A in Team, Avengers OT6 with asexual Clint. Taking the OT6 from makeouts on the couch to the bedroom hits a snag when the team discovers that Clint is asexual and, while he's a big fan of all the kissing, he's really not interested in sleeping with anyone. The team are determined not to leave him out though - they just need to find something that works for everyone. (Incomplete, orphaned)
- The Sum of Its Parts series by KouriArashi includes an asexual relationship between Derek and Stiles, with Derek being asexual. While Derek's portrayal at the beginning may suggest he lost interest in sex due to sexual abuse, it is later cleared that he was always asexual.
- Doesn't Add Up by Goldenpetal13 has an asexual Stiles and describes an evolution of his relationship with Derek.
- A Love with No Name series by aceofhearts61 in which asexual Sherlock and straight John are platonically in love life partners.
- Your Tired, Your Poor, Your Yearning RAs by sevenimpossiblethings, a college AU in which Eames and Arthur are both Resident Advisors, and Arthur is asexual. (Arthur/Eames)
- Leading with my heart by acidpop25. Arthur may be asexual, but he and Eames are in love all the same. (Arthur/Eames)
- Puzzles by enchantedsleeper, movie gap-filler which shows the progression of Ariadne and Arthur's relationship throughout the film, and an asexual Arthur grappling with his romantic feelings for Ariadne. (Ariadne/Arthur)
- Asexual Information and Perspectives, 29 September 2010 (accessed 30 March 2011)
- This entry is brought to you by John Watson's healing cock by lavvyan, 30 October 2010 (accessed 30 March 2011)
- Asexual Connor, January 2014, asscreedkinkmeme
- Connor/any, asexual relationship, fluff, December 2014, asscreedkinkmeme
- Connor was, in my headcanons, grey-aromatic asexual., Oct 7 2015, Assassin's Creed Confessions
- Today’s Queer Headcanon of the Day is: Connor Kenway is asexual and aromantic., Sept 25 2016, Queer Headcanon of the Day
- At one point Penny asks Leonard "What is Sheldon's deal?" and clarifies that she means his sexuality; Leonard replies that as far as any of Sheldon's friends know, "he has no deal." A later episode has Sheldon declaring that he is "quite aware of the way humans usually reproduce" but if he and his friend Amy were ever to have children, it would happen "in a lab with petri dishes."
- Todd Chavez Is TV’s First Out-and-Proud Asexual Icon by Sammy Nickalls. Published on September 8, 2017. Accessed on July 24, 2018.
- Dishonored wikia
- Silver Queen, response to an anonymous ask on dosbysilverqueen.tumblr.com. Posted 20 August 2016. (Accessed 27 July 2018.)
- "Due to their method of reproduction, salarians have no concept of romantic love, sexual attraction, or the biological impulses and social rituals that complicate other species' lives. Male-female relationships are rare (due to the scarcity of females) and more akin to human friendship. Sexuality is strictly for the purpose of reproduction." - Mass Effect codex entry on salarians
- Female Shepard and Male Shepard conversations with Mordin.
- Enjolras’ sexuality in The Brick, one of the most clearly articulated interpretations of the canon that reaches the conclusion that Enjolras is asexual.
- For example, see BBC Sherlock's sexuality.
- For example, see Asexual_fandom's delicious tags for SGA (Accessed 31 March 2011)
- Comment to "Writing Asexuals in Sex Scenes" by Dchan
- Comment to "Writing Asexuals in Sex Scenes" by Calvinahobbes
- Comment to "Writing Asexuals in Sex Scenes" by Hawkelf
- "Thoughts," reply to Calvinahobbes's comment to "Writing Asexuals in Sex Scenes" by Ysabetwordsmith