User talk:Ellakbhesse/2023 Archive

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IFD 2023

Hello people participating again in the IFD, these badges are too beautiful ( ˘ ³˘)♥

Banner by Airy

-- Ellakbhesse (talk) 03:47, 14 February 2023 (UTC)

Welcome to participating in the Fanlore challenge this year! And yes the banner (by Airy) and the badges (by Halley) are so lovely! Joanna R (talk) 10:43, 14 February 2023 (UTC)

Howdy, Ellakbhesse! Congratulations on earning your badge for day 2 of the IFD challenge! And thank you for adding to the pages Kirk/Spock and Xena/Gabrielle <3

Hope you're having fun editing! Wish you good luck earning the rest of the badges 🌸 Hheyhalley (talk) 02:08, 15 February 2023 (UTC)

Hello Ellakbhesse! Thanks for your work on Es de Fanfics and Retro Fanfic Retrospective. You have earned your badges for Days 3 and 4 ^_^ --Shiningpaperclip (talk) 18:10, 17 February 2023 (UTC)

Hi again! Back with another badge for your work on Fables. Thank you! --Shiningpaperclip (talk) 20:43, 17 February 2023 (UTC)

Hi, thank you very much for your edits on the short article 2 Broke Girls! Here is a fresh flower-themed badge for your great work ♥ -- SecurityBreach (talk) 13:47, 18 February 2023 (UTC)

Greetings Ellakbhesse! Thank you so much for your edits on the Sentinel AU page and congratulations on completing 2023 IFD challenge! Here's a shiny new badge for your bouquet -- Aerlko (talk) 04:02, 21 February 2023 (UTC)

Thanks to everyone who gave me the badges, Joanna R, Hheyhalley, Shiningpaperclip, SecurityBreach and Aerlko. Really thank you for taking the time to check all user edits and gifting them with such beautiful flowers And I'm sorry I didn't thank you earlier. It's been a little crazy these last few days, with Carnaval in Brazil and this year's IFD challenge. It was a race against time. Luckily I managed to complete each step of the two ☺️ -- Ellakbhesse (talk) 14:45, 21 February 2023 (UTC)

JadedPrism's message

I'm so sorry if this is against etiquette - please feel free to delete this if, so. But I just wanted to say it breaks my heart that you think you were a hindrance. There are folks on here, and everywhere, who will try to tear you down, or make you *feel* like you aren't of value. But I am sure you brought much value to this site! Even if your English isn't perfect, your insight and work ethic have worth. I hope you'll change your mind and come back, if being here brought you happiness. If it was only miserable, then I wish you the best wherever you go next. We were lucky to have you. -JadedPrism (talk) 08:19, 20 March 2023 (UTC)

Thank you, it was your message and some wonderful e-mails I received that kept me coming back. Thank you for the words about my ethics and worth while I previously worked on the site. I'm coming back even considering whether to stay or not. The worry of being frowned upon again is painful, but I love editing and those days away from here were horrible. Thanks again for the words -- Ellakbhesse (talk) 22:11, 25 March 2023 (UTC)

Thank you very much for returning to Fanlore, Ellakbhesse. I'm so glad you're back! SecurityBreach (talk) 01:26, 26 March 2023 (UTC)

Welcome back, Ellakbhesse. :-) MPH 01:33, 26 March 2023 (UTC)

I really, completely understand. If you are able, just make edits that you feel comfy doing, and know that everyone makes mistakes, and there is not too much that can be taken too seriously. Because of how MediaWiki is set up, the previous versions of everything still exists, and so if/when mistakes are made, they are correctable. And it doesn't mean your contributions weren't of value, even if they have to be rolled back for some reason. It just may mean that at the moment, they were not a good fit. And also, that definition will vary person to person. Every user on here has a different idea about what matters, and it's honestly okay if your views aren't the same as everyone else's. I'm so sorry that the days away were bad. As someone who gets very passionate and fixated, this happens for me, too. I hope this can be a better experience going forward. Just do what feels right/makes you happy, and if there's a serious issue, you can simply correct that one thing, and keep going ♥ Sorry if this is too much to read haha! Or too repetitive.

tl;dr I'm glad if you're able to come back and adjust expectations for how people might treat the site, and just let yourself enjoy your time editing for what it is. Because no matter if one person reacts a certain way, it doesn't mean everyone agrees with them! You are allowed to be here, and put your heart into fandom, too! -JadedPrism (talk) 02:08, 26 March 2023 (UTC)

Welcome back Ellakbhesse, and welcome and thanks to JadedPrism for their kind words. It's sooo true. I make so many mistakes and it doesn't really matter - I've just started sending thanks to the editors who correct me :D Everyone is welcome on Fanlore and no one should ever be made to feel otherwise!! --Auntags (talk) 00:23, 28 March 2023 (UTC)

I'm late to the party but it's good to see you around again, ellakhbhesse! Welcome back! -- Quaelegit (talk) 23:54, 27 March 2023 (UTC)

I am so happy to have returned and even more so for the reception you have given me. I never felt so loved as before, being here at Fanlore made me happier than ever. I was very sad on the days that I stayed away afraid to return. Thank you all for your words. You are wonderful, incredible -- Ellakbhesse (talk) 02:26, 28 March 2023 (UTC)

I'm very late to the party, but I'm glad to see that you're back on Fanlore, Ellakbhesse!--Shiningpaperclip (talk) 20:03, 22 April 2023 (UTC)

Not late darling, this party will never stop. I am very happy to have returned and for the warm welcome from everyone. Thanks Shiningpaperclip -- Ellakbhesse (talk) 20:23, 24 April 2023 (UTC)

Bingo 2023

Hi Ellakbhesse, are you participating in this year's Bingo event? If yes, I wish you tons of fun! (wishing you tons of fun anyway) Have a great time :D SecurityBreach (talk)

thank you my darling. I'm participating yes, a little late but here we are -- Ellakbhesse (talk) 03:28, 6 June 2023 (UTC)

Hi Ellakbhesse, it's OK when you started, you have already scored a bingo on your Beginner Card! Here is a colorful first badge! Joanna R (talk) 06:09, 7 June 2023 (UTC)

Stub September 2023

Hello Ellakbhesse! Welcome to the Stub September challenge! Here is your first badge. Keep up the hard work to earn more! -- Kingstoken (talk) 16:59, 19 September 2023 (UTC)

Thank you for the stamp, this time I will try to complete the different bingo challenge that I left incomplete now I will get all the stamps (◍•ᴗ•◍) -- Ellakbhesse (talk) 17:09, 19 September 2023 (UTC)

Hello again Ellakbhesse! Here are two newly hatched dinosaurs here to become your friend, and thank you for your work expanding a stub and adding headers to a stub! -- Kingstoken (talk) 00:29, 20 September 2023 (UTC)

I'm loving winning dinosaurs they are so cute, congratulations to the artist who created them (✿^‿^) -- Ellakbhesse (talk) 01:25, 20 September 2023 (UTC)

Hi Ellakbhesse, I've come bearing gifts! Congratulations on earning the last two dino badges of this year Stub September challenge 🐱‍🐉🐱‍🐉 -- Aerlko (talk) 09:20, 21 September 2023 (UTC)

Thank you very much, I'm happy to have finished, I'm back to stay \(๑╹◡╹๑)ﾉ♬ -- Ellakbhesse (talk) 16:34, 21 September 2023 (UTC)

Small note, I loved that the dino badges have colors of different queer flags, I recognized some of them and I'm amazed. Representation wins ( ˘ ³˘)♥ -- Ellakbhesse (talk) 16:39, 21 September 2023 (UTC)