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Pairing: Spike/Xander
Alternative name(s): Spander
Gender category: m/m slash
Fandom: Buffy the Vampire Slayer
Canonical?: no
Prevalence: popular
Archives: The Spander Files
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Xander (to Buffy): "No one is judging you. It's understandable. Spike is strong and mysterious and sort of compact, but well muscled."
Buffy: "I am not having sex with Spike! But I'm starting to think that you might be!"[1]


In canon, Xander and Spike have an antagonistic relationship, which started all the way in season 2 episode "School Hard" when Angel offered Xander to Spike in order to trick the younger vampire. Later on the seemingly mutual dislike was fueled even more after Spike slept with Xander's former fiancee Anya and after Spike's attempted rape on Buffy at the end of season six.

Spike and Xander have lived together twice – during season four when Spike was first chipped by the Initiative and during season 7 after Spike won his soul back and subsequently went 'bug-shagging crazy' with guilt.


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Common Tropes

  • Xander was offered to Spike by Angel in the second season episode "School Hard," and although he never formally accepted, many fanfiction authors use this as a plot device – Xander as Sire's gift and Spike returning to take what was his.
  • In season one episode "The Pack", Xander is possessed by a hyena spirit. This resulted in a lot of fics (Hyena!Xander is a very popular trope) where the hyena spirit returns/never left and claims Spike as part of pack and/or mate.

Notable Fanworks



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Examples Wanted: Editors are encouraged to add more examples or a wider variety of examples.

Archives & Communities



  1. Buffy the Vampire Slayer Season 5 Episode 18 "Intervention"
  2. comment by z_rayne in a slashphilosophy post by partly_bouncy, May 15, 2005: Slash Philosophy - History of slash fan fiction, Archived version