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Hatesex is a trope in fanworks wherein characters who actively hate each other have (usually explicit) sex. The sex itself is fueled by their mutual animosity. Some fandoms and fen deem anything that features an antagonistic relationship turned sexual to be hatesex, whether it be het, slash, or femslash.

Terms for the antagonistic relationships that give rise to hatesex vary, including enemyslash (referring only to slash ships, and sometimes they have reconciled by the time they get into bed) and hateshipping (though also sometimes used to describe the fan hating the ship). Hatesex may also be a metonym for the relationship itself.

Hatesex in Het

In particular fandoms, many fanfic writers and readers may remain uncomfortable with the real-life implications of violence, verbal abuse and possible non-con within a fictional het relationship. When het hatesex pairings do become popular, the female character tends to be extremely physically strong or combat-proficient, possibly even super-powered.

Some het pairings that are often written as hatesex include:

Hatesex and Femslash

Some femslash pairings that are often written as hatesex include:

In Different Fandoms

Harry Potter

Many ships in Harry Potter rely on this trope a great deal, such as Draco/Hermione or Draco/Ginny. Femslash examples include Ginny/Pansy or Ginny/Bellatrix, among others. This writer remembers an awesome Petunia/Lucius hatesex circa 2005, but the link is long gone.

Star Trek: Deep Space Nine

The pairing Kira Nerys/Dukat is often depicted as hatesex. An example is Dislocation, Condemnation, Revelation, In Temptation, by Sabine. Kira/Intendant is a femslash example.


Homestuck has canon precedent for this trope through kismessitude, an alien form of romance revolving around mutual hatred. As a result, there are a number of pairings focusing primarily on hatesex. Hatesex pairings are often distinguished from their more traditional counterparts by using the spades symbol (♠) like a virgule.

Fanwork Examples

Examples Wanted: Editors are encouraged to add more examples or a wider variety of examples.