The Mannerly Art of Disagreement
|Title:||The Mannerly Art of Disagreement, or Jeffersonian Debate is Alive and Well on the Internet|
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The Mannerly Art of Disagreement, or Jeffersonian Debate Is Alive and Well on the Internet was written by Macedon sometime before 1999 and revised in 2000.
It is a guide for fans engaging in online disagreements. It forms the basis of ASC policy and is sent out as part of the regular ASC FAQ. It originally appeared on usenet and has been a regular part of FAQ postings since before 1999.
The introduction: "A FAQ intended to compliment Peg Robinson's "'The Mannerly Art of Critique'."
Table of Contents
- I. Introduction
- II. Rules of Engagement
- III. What If One Participant Refuses To Play Fair?
- IV. Is It Ever All Right To Break The Rules?
Among the greatest problems faced in a public forum is how participants may disagree without descending into either personal attacks or not-so-witty one line repartee. There are certain "rules of engagement," if you will, which can prevent name-calling and other debate no-nos.But first, we must dispel the myth that polite equals namby-pamby. In fact, it is possible to disagree--even to disagree significantly--in civil manner. Disagreement is never *comfortable*, but if we refrain from permitting it to become a war (or on the internet, a flamewar) we might learn something and keep our blood pressure down at the same time. Disagreement can be fruitful. But it will be fruitful only so long as certain guidelines are followed.
IS IT EVER ALL RIGHT TO BREAK THE RULES?
Aren't there some topics that just don't *deserve* Jeffersonian debate? Aren't some positions so disgusting that they shouldn't be dignified by polite responses? What about posts by hate groups, neo- Nazis, pornographers, etc.?
This is a problematic question since it may lead down a slippery slope--rather like censorship. The automatic pitfall of free speech is that it IS free: people you don't like and with whom you disagree have just as much right to state their positions--short of slander--as you have to argue with them. Child pornography or its advertizement is illegal; debate about it is not...however disgusting or horrifying one may find the phenomena.
There are certain topics which are so widely regarded as morally objectionable that if one attacks them with non-Jeffersonian methods such as name-calling and invective, one may be cheered by most if not all the on-lookers. Yet there are other subjects, more controversial, which involve opinions just as virulent--such as homosexuality or abortion--but about which there is far less consensus. Some consider homosexuality or abortion to be as reprehensible as child pornography or murder, and refuse to engage in any polite debate about it because, of course, they are *right* and everyone who disagrees is wrong (and usually disgusting and stupid, too). The reverse can be equally true: defenders of either may automatically see all opponents as bigoted or irrational (often based on past experience), and refuse to even listen to other positions as they're too busy screaming their own at the top of their (virtual) lungs.
Neither side is trying to *debate*. They're just on rampage and should be treated accordingly: Laugh at them, ignore them, or get out of their way, but don't lower yourself to their level by copying their methods. Doing so certainly won't accomplish anything except to make you look just as foolish. If, however, you meet up with someone who IS being polite in debate--no matter what you may think of his or her position--IF YOU WISH TO CONVINCE ANYONE ELSE OF YOURS, stay polite yourself.In other words, No, it's never wise to break the rules. Not unless you're applying for God's job.